We had talked abot telling our D's together, but he did it alone and he couched it as a move to expedite his commute (he says b/c he wasn't sure what I wanted to say....but didn't talk to me about it. sigh). The purpose of the convo last night was clarification for me. We will talk to our D's together this weekend (at the moment Fri. night is the plan) and present it as a marital separation.
mmf,
I hope you're right, but I think that day will come long after a D. I don't think he'll be back. I'm actually ok with that even though it isn't what I want. He is a special man and I truly wish him happiness.
