With all due respect....

The trouble with MLC is that you can NOT predict anything about your Spouse.

You are saying that we should expect the best rather then the worst, but most interactions with MLC'ers are not especially positive.

What we used to "know" about our MLC'er doesn't apply anymore.

Their perception is skewed.

Their thoughts thwarted.

Nothing makes sense.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.