My heart bleeds for you and everyone here...I am thankful I have this board to come to...hold out as long as you can on the D..keep finding things that delay it...if you can't think of anything ask your L...tell them you believe in your M and you want to stop the D...
YOur H like mine is in lala land...they are having the time of their lives with the OW and being free....it has to end...it isn't all green grass...and the OW...well...she is the poison ivy.. as my D15 says, It WILL come back to bite them in the butt..and then they will be very lonely...
I feel for your son...my son is only 10 and just doesn't understand and he can't put in to words how he feels...I'm afraid some day it will come out in a very painful way..I am keeping on top of that...I shower my kids with hugs and love...they are the joys of my life...D21 comes home on Monday and we can't wait...we miss her and she is truly my rock...I need her right now. And so does my son...he loves her so much. It was actually a wish they had to write about in school. He wished his sister would come home because he misses her...I cried..no matter what my H says my kids are hurting... and he doesn't see it...he only sees them maybe an hour a week...I am left to pick up the pieces and I never tell H whats going on...why, he really doesn't care right now..
I have met some really great people here on the board and we all have something in common..we have MLC spouses...and they are Aliens...some day they'll crash and we'll be much stronger and much better people.. we win....
((((hugs)))
hang in there and stop by anytime..
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity