Grace, I remember my wife having almost the same conversation with me after she moved out.

She has been very cold most of the time. We are still not D, yet. He seems to be running true to form according to the MLC handbook.

Your H is lucky to have you and he will know that someday in the future that he was fortunate he married the right woman.

Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God