CAN YOU BE SOLUTION ORIENTED WHEN YOUR SPOUSE IS IN A MIDLIFE CRISIS?


DBing is looking at what is really going on with actions. Not just words. And not emotions.

DBing is more than the LRT.
DBing is more than detaching.

DBing is doing what works[stopping doing the things that aren't working. (Sometimes....'working' too hard at it makes matters worse)
/b]


Experiment.
Monitor results.
Adjust accordingly.






[b]Begin with the mind of a BEGINNER. No matter where you're at.



(Successful DBers do it ALL THE TIME!!!!)



Last edited by sgctxok; 02/28/08 12:01 AM.
sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001