I took your advice Ellie. My S15 rang me at work to find out when I would be home so I mentioned this to him them so I wouldn't forget. I'm still not sure it went it but hey at least no-one can say I didn't try.
The earthquake we had last night really scared me. It may have been relatively minor compared to what some countries get all the time BUT it made me feel so vulnerable and it just highlighted even further that my family is segrated. I know I said I wouldn't email H again but this morning I did send him a message just saying that I hoped he had come to no harm as a cnsequence of the quake. Of course he didn't reply but at least I know I showed I care.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15