Again, not a lot of help, but aren't you glad that you aren't that screwed up? What a sad existence.

Don't think for a second that I'm taking up for any of them, I'm soooo not. I just thank my lucky stars that even though I have issues, mine are not quite that bad.

If your H's think that they are going to be able to save these OW then they are just as delusional and messed up as they are. I know we know this, its just a matter of the H's figuring it out.

Mine is no different, he is dealing with the surfacing of some childhood issues, a gambling addiction and various other things and this OW is even more messed up than he is, so he becomes the savior and ruins not only our lives together but my kids' lives as well and they just don't get it.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option