Joie, Now that he has had a couple of days to think about it and talk to some of the other guys in racing. I think it won't be a 'get rid of it all' right now. A couple of the guys suggested to keep the car that he has ready to go and race a couple of the local shows and have a farwell tour, so to speak. I am all for that. I told him all along that I wanted him to make sure before he started to call the guys to sell the stuff to. Yes he does realize that there are problems. I like my FIL, when H called to tell him about quiting racing, my FIL said to H "well you do do alot of stuff and only think about you." This is coming from his dad. So I think that H as had a reality check from a couple different people.
Yes it will be a long haul, this I know. We have been married for all intense and purposes for 15 years now, Anny on 3-13.
I am doing fine, its kind of strange though, I don't miss OM like I did last week. I think part of it is the fact that I can now talk to H about it openly and honestly.