((((((Ali)))))) The sense of urgency you are feeling is being created by you! You can choose to let it push down on you, or you can live Ali's life, and it will float away!
It sounds like the tenants are, in the words of someone famous, mad as bicycles! I don't think they are going to be able to do anything but make you miserable, but only if you let them. What did the police say today?
Don't question past decisions, except to learn from them. You did what you thought was best, with the information you knew at the time. It isn't fair to question that based on what you know now!
On this confusion, or lack thereof. There is no way for you to know. You only get to see what he shows you. He may not be confused. He may KNOW he wants to come back, but have no idea how to do it. He may wonder, and be trying to figure out how to find out. I don't think he KNOWS that he doesn't, there just would not be so much contact.
I don't think you are looking at a backslide, just don't talk about your relationship! You can talk about you, or him, just not together!
