It might be a good idea. I think you'll get some good help here.
The apology thing is interesting.... W thinks I don't apologize, I'm sure I so. She rarely does, a least that I hear. It's almost as though we are speaking different languages. I apologize, but she doesn't hear it, and it seems to work the same way in reverse. (I don't here it, but I am going to assume that she does.) I don't know what it means, but it sounds like the same thing happens to you.