As much as you are confused about what you want, your W is probably just as confused with her own feelings as well as with your actions. I know in my case I thought my message was always consistent. I wanted to make the marriage work. But, my actions were not always in line with that. She was confused, I was confused and we were confusing each other.
He DOES NOT know that you would take him back. And he's not sure what he wants. He expects you to be angry, he's probably surprised you even want to be friends. It IS progress. Just look at how far you have come in 3 months!
Patience. You are doing AMAZING!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2