Yeah, who knows? I really doubt it (since he emailed me a while ago, so he is probably at the library.) At this point, I'd almost be relieved to find out there was some explanation. If it is an A, I would guess it's an EA. I have asked him point-blank several times and he has said no--even in front of our MC. She has also indicated to me in IC that it seems unlikely.

I know, it seems like I am in denial. My H was so incredibly shy with women before he met me (and I was more of the aggressor) and is such an Eagle Scout type who remains basically responsible, that it would shock me, even under the circumstances. But, yep, it's always those types, isn't it?

I don't understand where people find all these men and women out there willing to have affairs. Honestly, I am a very attractive woman and no man has EVER come on to me anywhere! It just boggles my mind when I read the posts here and everyone's spouse seems to have an OP. Maybe it's because I'm a freelancer and I work at home alone? I don't even know where I'd begin if I decided I wanted to have an affair (not that I would).


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08