I also have found the boards here and the people here to be so supportive and knowledgeable also. I also try when I am feeling depressed or upset to post here instead of emailing my H with it or talking about the R with H. I am working on not pursuing my H which is always a challenge for me, which will push them away also. I have found just trying to keep busy as much as possible GAL is good as well. Please keep posting whenever you feel you need support or have a question! Karen43