Well Coyote, they say those links aren't "solution-oriented" and that they only help to get an LBS "stuck in the crisis" as opposed to taking care of themselves.
What the moderator(s) don't seem to grasp, or at least don't respect enough to recognize, is that there are people who will dig and dig with the need to understand before they CAN start moving towards their own healing.
But this is how they wanna roll around here now. So we either conform or we get banned.
My meaningless opinion is that this ain't gonna fly on the MLC board because of the sheer nature of that beast. LBSs either have to understand it (as much as it can be understood), or you have to be standing with others saying "WTH?". There's a whole lotta hand wringing in the future of this board.
Providing you with solutions for the mess your spouse's MLC left you with is one thing and it's to be commended, but to ignore your human need to grasp at least the collar of the monster you're dealing with, is irresponsible and since they HAVE the information, written by those that have been in the trenches and OPTED to remove it, it is also cruel and self-serving.
