Does my definition of sex differ from my W's? I know this has been a sore spot in the past. When I've asked for more intimacy, my W thinks I'm asking for intercourse, but I don't necessarily always want or need this. I really do enjoy just being physically close. Maybe that's what the challenge could be for us... Dedicate at least 5 or 10 minutes daily to close, physical intimacy. If it leads to more, great. If not, that's okay too.
Personally, I would love this, but my H feels that if he's not getting enough S I shouldn't be entitled to intimacy/affection/whatever. Today has been a bad day and I really need a big hug...but I won't get one unless I initiate S...which is the last thing on my mind today (my terminal sister is having a bad day).
