It is amazing how our H's reacts. Yours is to the other family (inlaws of yours) the same or nicer. Mine too. My inlaw family say he is changed a lot to a better person. (Grrrr what???) They are telling also that OW is nice and trying hard to be kindly (Yikes) Do they forget that H and OW had an affaire for almost one year without telling anyone???? It seems so easy for them to go along with this stuff. To you your H is reacting with anger. Mine is too!Cold, very much distant, don't care. I try to be very kind but he is always angry and blaming for everything that he thinks (!!!!) I say. And than at work: I don't know how mine is reacting there (you have inside information. That is good!) but I do know that it isn't going well. That he isn't working that much anymore, not compare like before to this job!And things are not well at work And than the kids. My hart is bleeding about that. And you have three of them! My H is very weard to my S(22). H is trying to be nice but he's always doing somewere stupid things!
I am visiting your threat often. I am not keeping mine intact.Maybe later. My H is pushing a lot to settle the money but I am trying to hold that a little. I have now a good L to advice me. So I think at the end of March that will be done (H thinks it will be done tomorrow if I say yes. I won't because I do know this is not a good deal he is offering me)H is saying to me that it must be quikly done with the settlement because he has to live his life now with OW! (All the talking is about him!) I try to hold the D, but I don't know yet how long I can do that. It is all happening so fast! I also cry a lot because I don't understand this alien! Waking up in the middle of the night and thinking this isn't true!!! And it is hard to be alone, realy alone!
So I am here reading your threat (and others) and feeling all the things you are! Take care Treese. I think you are a wonderfull and warm woman.
Hugs Merel
H50 Me50 S22 T34,LT7,M23 OW12/06 bomb11/07 Moved out11/07
