I didn't realize you weren't divorced when you gave him the boot (I remarked on someone else's thread about that). In that case, it may not be the worst thing ever. I don't blame you at all, or really consider that you blew it all that much. Seriously, she's married, it's your house. It was not unreasonable. Yes, she's mad now. She talked about a restraining order. If things were going okay before, then things will likely blow over. Just let her do the contacting, if there is to be any. Be nice, be friendly, don't overdo it, and just try to forget about this unless she brings it up.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
