I think in my case the OW has told my H that she is in a bad marriage or something from the very few comments he's made. Once she is out of that and living with him though and she's been "rescued", and then he's living with her, I wonder how things will go. She seems the opposite of me: I am the laidback full-time mom type easygoing never complaining type & she is a perfectionist workaholic. H is a slob and has some other flaws, so I think that will be interesting for him & her ...Karen43