Cam, I live in Europe, nearly bed time here too ! Nighty night
Jeanette - H is right with me on this decision...thing is he wasn't with me on choosing to do all that was needed to see if she would make it and, I know I will not be able to do that alone.....
Thanks for your sweetness ! xx
SWL, check your mail please, I never meant to offend you, it was a bad choice of words on my part.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Be with you (in my mind) tomorrow! This is terrible sad!
And please keep faith! Keeping faith is beleaving that miracles CAN be happen! Your kids sounds very smart! The kids are giving us hope and guts to live.
Hugs Merel
H50 Me50 S22 T34,LT7,M23 bomb11/07 moving out within 10 minutes OW12/06
Hi Cinders....you are in my prayers. I wish things could be easier for us all.
Take Care.....
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Cinders, I am so sorry to read about your puppy. My thoughts and prayers will go out to you and your children tomorrow. Pets become such an important part of our lives, don't they?
As for your little boy, I say what a brave little boy he was in saying what he did. As for your daughter, she let her father know that you had nothing to do w/the statements. Your children are definitely in your corner. I do hope that your h, at some point, will listen to what they have to say. They see more than any of us think and they are quite able, even at that young age, to connect the dots.
Please be take care of yourself and those lovely children.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Cinders, Oh sweetie, you have had a really rotten week. I am so sorry. Can you plan something special for yourself and the children for the weekend? Maybe you all need a good distraction from this rollercoaster ride from hell. Sending love and prayers,
((((((((hugs))))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
Sending lots of (((((hugs))))) and (((((prayers))))) to you. you are in my thoughts.
Its so hard to lose a faithful friend. Remember I went through that last April and had to do it without my h. It had shown me how strong I had become. You are a strong woman. Your kids know how lucky they are to have a mother like you. Hang in there.
*****@@@@%%%%%%%******@@@@@%%%%%%% There some faily dust to get you though your hard times, my friend!!
Cinders, everyone here is right on the money about you and I love what your kids said because it came from them. I agree with ACJ that your H probably knows it too (deep down inside). Can you imagine what it is like for a "man" to be told by his 4 year old son that he is doing the wrong thing? Wow!
You have some great kids Cinders. Truly a reflection of their mother!
And it is okay to want to give up every now and then. In fact, you have done so much already. Just get back up on that horse again, little sis.
If we could peer into the future, I think it would be much easier to be patient and wait this out. I think this is why this place is so important. We can blow off steam and then start anew.
I wish I could be there for you tomorrow regarding your dog. Think of all of your friends here being with you when you go.
<<<Hugs>>>
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
I love you ALL very dearly, thank you so much for your kindness and loving words ! I will take you all with me in my heart when I say goodbye to my doggie this afternoon.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
