Originally Posted By: AliSuddenlyAlone
about his emails...really !?? You all think this is positive? I feel like I am in a parallel universe to all of you! It seems to me we have reverted to the R we had 10 years ago, before we were properly together. We always did get on so well. He still hasnt picked up the phone to me to say hi...that would be progress !

Yes! Exactly! You have to walk before you can run!

Originally Posted By: AliSuddenlyAlone

I would be surprised if he was afraid of rejection? WOuldnt he realise I would take him back in a heartbeat and he holds all the power in this sitch?

No way! He thinks that you would be angry that he left, and that you might never take him back! He is feeling things out. He doesn't know what he wants yet.

Patience, Ali!