well, my story is too long and awful, began on this board when H left, migrated to piecing, was in infidelity too, i'm lurking in MLC now though it's pretty much decided H and I are separating for good.
This is obviously not what I want, we both don't want to go to court & spend thousands in a battle, we agreed to a mediator. We dont' have money and are lucky our cc bills will be taken care of by the tax refund. A friend told me he should to pay for mediation/fees. I dont' want to drag this, but I dont' want to pay for med if I dont' have to. H suggested today in blood bath C (last one) that we should put it on the credit card, heck no! we'll actually have all cc down to 0 and now he wants to put stuff on it?
Anyways, any ideas welcome, oh, he won't fight me for the house, we'll sell it when kids graduate (youngest one is 5). Is willing to give me more $$ if I need it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
