Finding this whole DB forum and knowing that I'm not the only person who believes in doing backflips for their marriage is definitely comforting regardless of where things end up - before finding the book ( which I could easily have done with 6 months earlier - duh! ) I was starting to feel like I was the only one on the planet - seriously.
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