Partner left after 9 years - now we're friends??

[AliSuddenly]

and then...I got to the flat and found they'd left the front door open!!! So I had to send the buyers away and call the Police! I phoned the tenants but they didnt answer of course. And all this after they threatened me with harrassment today! Hmm, think that solves the robbery hey!! Anyway...

about his emails...really !?? You all think this is positive? I feel like I am in a parallel universe to all of you! It seems to me we have reverted to the friendship we had 10 years ago, before we were properly together. We always did get on so well. He still hasnt picked up the phone to me to say hi...that would be progress !

Well I did reply to his email, I answered his questions about the robbery and some other house issues and also asked, did our paperwork turn up yet about the remortgage (as we STILL havent done it).

And sure enough...he replied straight away! More of the same matey, casual tone, could've been emailing a guy, or a workmate...he asked me some more questions about the robbery and also about the viewing...

I was abot to leave then, so I just emailed back to say got to go do the viewing, wish me luck.

And he replied immediately with a "erm, good luck!" and that was it!

I would be surprised if he was afraid of rejection? WOuldnt he realise I would take him back in a heartbeat and he holds all the power in this sitch?

Its my birthday soon..one of my goals was increased contact with him (thats true! 3 texts Sat and Sun, 3 emails from him today !) and another was that he would remember my birthday. I would love him to actually acknowledge it in some way, maybe a card, or woooa there...a visit !? If he doesnt, I reckon thats it for us. Uranus conjuncts my Sun on the 9th and 10th (my BD!), if that doesnt sweep something in, or out of my life, I will eat my jeans (that'll make me wear more skirts!)

Ali-The-Astral-Analyser