That is a very interesting thought. I think there is definitely a lot of pressure on the OP because there is a measure of truth to that.
My H's OW is "emotionally imbalanced" (not my words, but the words of a mutual friend of HERS and mine). I think it is hard for the WAS to see that when they are caught up in the first blush of romance, the rush and excitement covers up all that. Not love is blind, but LUST is blind. Otherwise, I can't explain it.
I know my ego took a blow when I found out about OW, not only was my H having an affair, but I'd been replaced with THAT!?!?!? I mean, if he'd left me for some rich supermodel at least I'd think he was moving up in the world lol.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
