I agree, stop saying I love you. Don't pressure, pursue, beg etc. and don't have relationship talks. Also don't defend yourself when she confronts you. Instead agree. Whether you agree or not that you hurt her what matters is that she is hurt. Could you give a little more information? What are her complaints? This will help you to identify areas to change for your 180. What are your goals?


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Role Reversal(original)
WAW now LBS part I & II
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T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.