Oddkins

[Nature Girl]

When he's off by himself, he will have time and space to find out what the real problem is (and we all know it's not you).

Grace, I agree with new. Let him ramble off on his own now while you just concentrate on you and your girls.

Your strength is amazing! I think this will bring your own growth to a whole new level.

You were asking about Ls on your last thread. I was thinking about that myself yesterday since I now feel like my H is getting his ducks in a row. The fact that my H is a L (not family law), makes it kind of tricky for me. And I don't have any friends who are separated or divorced for me to ask (and I guess I wouldn't ask any friends anyway right now since nobody knows about my sitch). I was also starting to think about trying to find a family C to talk to so that I can get my ducks in a row about how to talk to kids, if that time comes for me. Then I put those two ideas together and thought maybe a famuly C (who is pro-marriage and solution-oriented) may have ideas for Ls that would work with pro-marriage and solution-oriented situations.

Aren't D laws state-wide so that you can talk to one of those "free consultation" Ls from a different county and the info would still apply in your county? Are you sure that Ls can't practice across county lines in CA?