Her reply was effectively "no way she's getting back" ... followed by the outburst ... same as how she responded ~4 months ago and earlier as well. And this was after she talked casually for ~1hr about this, that and the other. I felt I really had to test the waters though to see how she would react. I did not leave abruptly I tried to soothe things a bit as best I could for a few more minutes but I really had to leave as she was giving me a ride in her car back to my office and I was running late already.
Yes these outbursts are not normal for the normal person but is W's normal behavior in difficult situations. My explanation for the outburst is either: (1) she feels very guilty about something and is masking it (2) she's clinging onto past hurt and this is how she expresses it. But again one never knows for sure. -fb2
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread
