I keep remembering what forum member LoginName told me:

My W had left. She was moving on, probably without me. Now, she has had to completely turn her emotional ship around to start heading back home. Therefore, she is very likely working harder at this than I am. I have always been on the same path, so it's easier for me.

I can't lose sight of that.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!