Honestly I don't know what I could say to you to make you think I want him specifically and not just a warm body. I have had opportunity before and after and I choose to be alone. I could go on about all the fun/nice/sweet/caring things he did but why should I? Doesn't change how I feel only the way you perceive how I feel.
And I don't agree about the pain for a WAS. I don't think and never will think they they feel no pain about their decision. How could they feel pain when they are instantly bedding someone younger or new. I don't think it was painful while they cheat not only on their spouse but the family as a whole. I don't see any pain on their part.
