Advice? Keep breathing. Take care of Treese. Take care of the kids. Try not to waste you energy worrying about what he is telling people, or what they think. You know what's true, and most of them do to.
The job, there's not much you can do there. When he does talk listen, but don't say anything that puts pressure on him to keep it! Pressure from you, even if you are right, will not help.
