My husband and I have been together for 7 years and the last two years have been lacking a connection that we always had. About 5 months ago I withdrew and asked for space as I didn't feel I was in love with him any longer. After some soul searching and reading and looking at myself I realized we hadnt worked on our marriage and really wanted to try. At that same time that I mentioned to my husband that I wanted to work on our marriage my husband decided he then needed space and wasnt sure. He has since started seeing someone else and I confronted him 2 weeks ago as he was lying about it and saying he needed space and time to figure out what he wanted. We live under the same roof as we can't financially support a living arrangement otherwise until our house sells. I really want to work on my marriage and feel so upset that we haven't tried anything and we have a 4 year old child together. Help me.
Any thoughts.
M 37 H 37 Married 2yrs (together 7yrs) Son 4yrs old and H has Daughter 11 yrs old H involved with OW since Jan 08 and still seeing OW Still under same roof, but H spending more time with OW as time goes on
