...because to be quite honest for you guys to get through this crisis you will have to have time of NOT working on your R and working on yourselves...being okay with who YOU each are...not identifying yourself with the other...
Thank you Lin....I needed to hear that today.....Just needed some reassurance that things needed to be this way.
Im not obsessing as much as you think. I honestly can wake up in the mornings now and my H is not the first thing on my mind. To me, that is a MAJOR improvement on detaching some. I guess a part of me thought he would come running back to me when it was over with the OW...now I see that was just wishful thinking and would only continue the cycle. Things are good right now.
He is getting the kids for an hour this afternoon. He is going to take them out for supper since he werent able to spend his usual night with them. AND he is getting them Saturday afternoon and letting them spend the night with him and it isnt even his weekend!! I am pleased to see the changes in him in regards to the kids.
Where is my patience!?? IMP, have you seen it anywhere???!!!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
