I think I'll send the link to my W to see if she's up for the challenge. Here's something that just occurred to me and comes back to communication in general...
Does my definition of sex differ from my W's? I know this has been a sore spot in the past. When I've asked for more intimacy, my W thinks I'm asking for intercourse, but I don't necessarily always want or need this. I really do enjoy just being physically close. Maybe that's what the challenge could be for us... Dedicate at least 5 or 10 minutes daily to close, physical intimacy. If it leads to more, great. If not, that's okay too.