And the additional thing is a lot of the postings I've seen here seem like the OW's are somewhat dysfunctional. I mean I guess in the first place to get involved with a married person sometimes with kids you are probably at least slightly dysfunctional anyway. The OW in my case is also married with kids, on her 2nd or 3rd marriage, and her kids, according to friends of mine who know them are troubled and have emotional problems. I've noticed other people posting about OW's seem to post that the OW's have problems with drinking or other addiction problems as well. I don't see how many, if any of these type of women would be worth breaking up a family for. Karen43
