H - thanks for the additional details! More positives in there, it sounds like. I bet some of that lighter feeling is that you finally got this out there. You've been thinking about it for SOOO long and working on the courage to do this - I'm sure it feels great that you finally DID it.

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I think the thing that will seal the deal on that part is if I can get her to commit to not seeing him again while we are married.


You might want to include "or any OM" in that request. ;\)

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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