I am surprised at how I feel today and I don't understand why. I will think and pray on this. All I can say is I feel that I am being watched over in a spectacular fashion. My sense of calm astounds me.
I think this says alot about the "work" you've been doing on yourself over the last few months. It's paying off. You know you can handle anything.
I have a feeling that his moving out will be good for your r in the long run. Your h sounds alot like mine- with his self-hatred and inability to talk/argue. When he's off by himself, he will have time and space to find out what the real problem is (and we all know it's not you). Hugs...