Partner left after 9 years - now we're friends??

[AliSuddenly]

Well, the tone of his communications is getting longer, chattier and less like a BF quite honestly ! It all points to him JUST wanting to be friends?? He also said he may call me at the weekend, but he didnt. I feel like he has moved on to be honest, but is just struggling a bit (he is a Leo, they are not designed to be single !) and maybe wants a bit of contact/comfort. But I feel so depressed at the lack of any sign of change in him. Of course you are right in that respect. And I can only be grateful that we are still in touch at least, but theres no...connection.

He just emailed to say he was thinking of selling his Dads house (its in joint names but it is all his as far as I am concerned). This is great for him (he will make £100k !!!!) but bad for me. Our joint house makes a loss on the rent, which is offset by the profit on the rent on his Dads place...so we lose that profit if he sells up. I dont know how we will get around that problem with the loss on our joint house. And we still havent as yet remortgaged our joint house..so I am worried now his mind will be turning to sell that ! He hasnt said that though. I'm just having a stressful time. Those rich tenants in my flat have rich Daddies who have their own companies and own Lawyers on tap and are threatening me with all sorts!

Thanks for yuor help, I guess his email was really really disapointing, being rather devoid of any emotion. He just sounds like hes getting on with his week. So another week goes by. I am panicking, because I sense a window of opportunity is closing...

Ali x