I know this is all so tough. I know you'll be ok though!! Sorry about the weird AZ memories. Maybe this year you can make some new ones just for you.
About the tax thing - as a practical matter - if you D everything will be split 50/50 in our state. So while I agree it's unfair, it's probably not a battle that's worth fighting.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread