Hang in there. At least you and BF have been having contact on a regular basis. This is a good thing! He hasn't just walked away with nary a look back! There is still a connection there...it just might not be what you anticipated it to be yet. Have you ever considered that maybe, just maybe, he's giving you all that he can give right now? Maybe he isn't capable of anything else at the moment. But at least there is something there! I know how hard it is to accept "less" when you are used to so much more....but at least it is something.
Sorry about the tenants....try not to let them get to you!
Hugs!
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally