You were with your h longer than I was with D and you still have to have some dealings with him because of the kids. My ex and I have no contact other than seeing one another at dog functions. I can't do the dog activities and keep avoiding seeing them so I had to get past it. Yes, it was a fear to face and I didn't really realize that one was still out there for me. I'm glad it has been faced now.
I'm not upset you brought up Tx. I know you did it because you care and not for any other reason. I think I'm right where I need to be for right now. I feel very content and settled in my life, an at peace feeling that I haven't had for a lot of years!! It is good.
I have not talked with my friend any more about the motorcycle group. It is still too cold for me to even think about going down the road with no warm car around me!!! The older I get the more I seem to mind the cold, damp, dark weather. No, there aren't many men in the dog groups. Male handlers everyone says are gay and in the obedience group either married or married and players like D and the other guy in our training club! NO THANK YOU!!!!!!! Not again, been there, done that and don't want the tee shirt!
I bet you do miss your kitties. I can't imagine leaving my shelties for a whole month!!!
I am having a good day.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
