No children to draw him back.....no what???

[NikB]

Pinkribbon - you are doing great!! Definitely GAL and good job staying dark. Wow I didn't realize you worked at the same place, that does make it tougher.

I wish I could swap roles. Would make me feel a whole lot better.

Quick thought on this - I really doubt it would make you feel better. Detaching does make you feel better, but wanting your M over is pretty darn painful. When I got to that point (briefly) it was an eye opener as to what my H had been feeling, but it sure didn't feel better.