You guys are great. I read your responses many times. I am having another good day. Two in a row. I am really working on detaching and she is really starting to notice. She actually came and sat by me at the basketball game and I did not say one thing when she was texting and once walked away to talk on the phone. When we got home last night she actually came in my room at 10 PM ( she only had a short t-shirt, butt out, which drove me nuts) to say very kindly good night. No kisses or hugs lately. I think the next time she trys to kiss me I may pull back for i don't like the feeling of kissing my grandmother. If she wants a real kiss that is fine but a kiss on the side of the lips or a one second peck does nothing for me. I am letting her drive that train. What I would have done to ML last night. BTW I am keeping a large bottle of Vodka in my room for her (I don't drink anymore). I think I feel so good because she is going away this weekend, way in the back of my mind I feel the OM is in the mix somewhere this weekend but who cares, if she wants to do that so be it and there is nothing I can do about it.
I am going to have a great day and I am a good person!
