Julie

As a teacher, I understadn the frustration of having someone spread rumors about you...
(last year I was hauled in because a kid said I practiced witchcraft and killed someone!!!!)

but someone said it best when they said that it is a reflection on him instead of your sister.

he is a tardmonkey and people see that

it's pretty sad when people don't understand strong women friendships...his OW probably doesn't have many women friends...she doesn't get it

too bad for her

and if your sister needs some voodoo hex spells...let me know ;\)