I have sworn off the spying. But am still worried that she has no desire what so ever to get back.
I know the feeling, but what can you do about it if she doesn't have a desire to get back together with you? Nothing. So, worrying is simply for you...it doesn't aid your task. I'd argue it hurts with your ability to detach and to show the strong, confident you. It'll suck, but you'll survive.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
