Now I think TJ regrets all those convos, as they will be barriers to his relationship with the kids. It is amazing to me how these convos that throw daggers at us and our children become burdens for them to bear in the near future. We survive, they struggle.
Believe it.
Your words are a comfort, Holly hooters..
Hiya Shades, I can imagine the weather you are having, but I will not like you to elaborate on it.
I am glad he is not contacting you. Let some time pass, and let the "feelings" of the NJ fiasco kinda settle down.
I used to tell the kids, hey, it's 7:30 call your dad to say goodnight. I did that for a good year almost.
No more.
They hated that I forced it on them. He calls now, pretty much every night. He did not do that for a loooong time.
Maybe let your girls, have a say on this one. They don't have a say in so many things in their lives, you know.
They kinda get told, here is what is happening in your life.
I thnk it's ok for them to have some ownership of something.
Moises wrote to me one day, thank you for letting me make some choices.
Just passing it on, b/c your D and my Moises are the same age.
Can you come to NJ already, thanks.
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