Piecing...gosh this is hard ll

[Lissie]

How long has he been home now mamma?

I haven't read your entire story, b/c i feel like if I post about him I will lose it.

But i prayed this morning, so maybe I'll be ok talking about it.



Ok.

The Cow. Is there a boundary set? Like she needs to be out of the apt by________________________.

Can you do that in piecing? Or does that put them in that tunnel that has no cheese.

And.................

If you have not set this type of boundary before, if you do it now, can it be like a 180?

How about date stuff.

Maybe pick one day a week, to do some date stuff.

Maybe write some suggestions on a piece of paper, and put them in the box. The date box. And whatever gets picked out is what you will do.

There is this great book I read too

called the 10 second kiss. http://shopping.yahoo.com/p:10-Second%20...HNsawNib29rcw--

It is an easy read. I will mail it to you of you want let me know.

I know you are mourning the loss of your bubbie, and the pain that goes with all this home stuff too.

It is alot on your plate, thank God you are working, and get to focus on that too.

I am sorry this is hard, I believe that piecing, from what i have heard, from some of the peeps on this board, is super hard.

But so worth it in the long run, if there is honesty on both sides.

(((((((((((((sweetie)))))))))))