KLM, Thanks for responding. I Have very mixed feelings about everything. My H is acting like he knows this is what he truely wants (to work on our M). But he acted this way last summer when he returned to me the first time. I tried so hard to piece things together smoothly last time, and he still got really depressed and ran again on me in Dec. Now that he is back again, I feel like I just don't know how to bring up my issues. When I asked him about going to see a MC, he said:"I will try anything once". Not exactly the answer I was hoping for, and I don't know if either of us would be very comfortable with that situation. TIPPER