Oddkins

[Lissie]

I have more hope this morning than I did yesterday.

God is good.

Hold on to this, you said today, mamma. You may need it another day.

The "talk": I said I was surprised by what H had told D's re his move (that it was to expedite his commute and he'd be home on the weekends as opposed to marital seperation).

Oh that speech. Hmmm My babies heard it too. I will tell you, that telling them that was not the truth, later on, was hard on them.

His rational last night was so that I would see the error of my ways.

You are brilliant. I would not notice these things, till now. 2 years later. Niiice, the dad role, that try to pull with you isn't it? Glad you are so on top of things Ginger. Trust me this will help you so much in the long run.

You didn't let it get a rise out of you. Perfect.

I carded him on the trying part. I said we had to be real and what did he want to do. I offered him time to think about it. I was honest and calm.

Ginger, i am so with you on this.

It's sad to see him so lost. I think shame plays a big part in his inability to go back once he's made a decision. I brought this into the convo by relating it to someone else who really screwed up parts of their life b/c of this.

I am glad you spoke up. I know Dbing is against this, but sometimes we have to be real, and just tell the truth.

I will tell you what. I tried to be friends with Javier, but no it was not the time. I don't think your H is ready for the friendhsip you need to have with him

It will be a while. But I do believe it will come. It might be sooner than later for you, b/c you are calm cool and collected, and not throwing spanish curses at him

The talk with the children, is also something very personal. Pray about it, and have faith in your parenting.

I have been blessed that I have the talks with M&M by myself. I hated it at first. But Javier was so out there, that it would of been awful.

You and your H, at least speak to each other nicely, and don't want to stab each other soo , I have so much faith it will be ok

Love them dearly those babies. Iknow you do.

This is b/c he is the first to turn and face danger and the last to run.

I'm not running.

HUGS dear heart.

We are all behind you. Praying.