Mink - I am in a similar situation, but I have not pushed.
The little bunny has retreated back into the hole to think things through a bit. That's cool.
I have had limited contact with W since Sunday, just some text messaging. She texted me yesterday to re-schedule dinner from last night (Tues) to tonight (Weds). My texts back.. "sure," or "no problem." I then execute the GAL playback - called some buds, went out for a nice dinner, played some cards and smoked a cigar. W called during dinner and I did not pick up. She had our D leave a message, but I really felt that she was checking up on me.
Piecing is a bitch. You want to just say... we are in love, we have a great life, let's put this bullshit behind us. Unfortunately we are "wired" differently than our spouses. We must march at their pace or we risk heading back to STAGE 1.
This is just a lull, right it out. You need to really give her some space, let her make the next move.
