The mantle of manliness weighs heavy on my broad shoulders. Many a women swoons when I enter the room. It truly is my cross to bear. I take the responsibility very seriously.
I actually had to register my charisma with the FBI.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
I found out last year that a girl I knew back in high school and went to my church had died just the year before in '06 of cancer. She and I used to argue quite a bit through grade school, and we had a bit of a somewhat friendly rivalry -- she used to tease me mercilessly, and I did the same back to her. Other than that there was no ill will between us, if not outright friendship.
I spoke with her younger sister in August about her death (ovarian cancer), apologizing for having lost contact with them so long ago. She told me that her sister, the "pest" as I had called her, who had married and had a family of her own, had carried a bit of a torch for me then and for a lot of years thereafter. I never knew -- it shocked me to my very core.
So, yes, it is certainly possible. Surprisingly to me.
NoCodes.. that's exactly it. Ow is now living her high school dream.. Whatever..
Have had more strange R and D conversations lately. I don't have time to go into them but, the fog is definately lifting and H is remorseful. His new life w/ow isn't the paradise that he expected but it's what he has chosen for himself. We can't go back ... the innocence of what our M was pre-A's is gone forever. Sad..
The mantle of manliness weighs heavy on my broad shoulders. Many a women swoons when I enter the room. It truly is my cross to bear. I take the responsibility very seriously.
I actually had to register my charisma with the FBI.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
NoCodes.. that's exactly it. Ow is now living her high school dream.. Whatever..
Have had more strange R and D conversations lately. I don't have time to go into them but, the fog is definately lifting and H is remorseful. His new life w/ow isn't the paradise that he expected but it's what he has chosen for himself. We can't go back ... the innocence of what our M was pre-A's is gone forever. Sad..
LO, I think we always think about the "one" that got away, but most of us don't act on it.
In high school I dated a boy and broke up with him because he was so jealous. Well, as soon as he started dating someone else, I was lovestruck again. I pursued but never got him back. I met my H and got over him, but still had feelings of what ifs for him.
Well, fast-forward to now. When I found out that my H was supposedly having an affair with his secretary I wanted to contact her H to find out if it was true. He had talked to my friend's BIL. I couldn't contact the BIL because I didn't want to cause problems with my friend. The OW's H ironically happened to be from the same litte town and was living there with his parents that my HS BF lived in. My ex BF was the only person I knew that might know how to get ahold of the OW's H parents.
Well, I contacted the HS BF. He wasn't able to help me on the phone number, but gave me a sympathetic ear. By the way he had been divorced 3 times! He called periodically to check on me. I found myself wondering if I could have feelings for him again, but talking to him I discovered that I had grown and he didn't seem to fit in my life anymore. So I guess what I'm trying to say is, I believe your H will soon figure out that there was a reason he and the old flame didn't work out back then and will soon find out that it won't work out now.
Hugs
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
LO, I forgot to add there was plenty of oppurtunity for me to hook up with the ex BF, but like I said I had no desire. He still calls me periodically and I just ignore his calls. You would think by now he would catch a clue!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Hi Yoyo - I think you're right in that we all sometimes think about the "one that got away". However, I'm pretty sure that I wouldn't have an A with the guy if he showed an interest in me again! Funny about your exbh. You would think he would catch a clue since you NEVER call him! Maybe he thinks if he holds on long enough, you'll weaken to his advances.
Ow in my sitch actually isn't an old flame of H's, though. She was just infatuated with the "popular boy" in school...
My quote of the day: "I don't want to be with a man I have to share."
